By Mary Yewell

What exactly does living a simply abundant life mean? Cancelling all appointments on your busy calendar to spend time meditating on having harmony in your life? Hiring a contractor with a front loader to clean out all the piles of accumulated stuff that makes up your cluttered environment? Carving out one hour a week to do something that for you and you alone brings you joy? Looking in the mirror at the person you hardly recognize and asking the question, " When was the last time you had a day off?" The answer to these questions could be: Yes, No, Maybe, or an audible sigh.
The daily choices we make and that we allow others to make for us determine the life we live. Today is a day you can choose to start making small changes that will lead you to that simpler and more abundant life. Living a more abundant life begins with daily gratitude. Begin each day with a grateful heart. Take yourself off of autopilot. Take a deep breath and enjoy the smell of your morning coffee, or admire the blue sky as you start your day. Take time to thank the person that held the door for you, helped you accomplish a goal at work, or simply smiled at you in passing. At the end of the day jot down five things that you are grateful for that happened during the day. You will be amazed at how much more aware you are of the abundance that surrounds you. Abundance comes in many forms that have nothing to do with the exchange of money.
The second step is to look at your calendar. Make a conscious choice to make an appointment with yourself for one hour a week. Protect this time at all costs, you deserve it! Then write down five things you have wanted to do for yourself but have not taken the time to do. This does not include chores like taking the dry cleaning to the cleaners, giving the dog a bath, or mowing the lawn. The five things on your list are things that will make you feel good, like getting a haircut, painting your toenails or visiting a museum all by yourself. The five things you have listed are the goals for you to accomplish over the next five weeks during your one hour appointment with yourself. Since it is only an hour, there is no reason for you to pack a bag and go on a guilt trip! Just mark the time on your calendar and keep your commitment to yourself.
The next step is to stop and look around you, what can you do to simplify your environment? Is it time to set new expectations with those that live with you about picking up after themselves? Ask them to help you with making space for the accumulation of things that everyone seems to stumble over in the family room. What needs to stay and where is a home for it? What needs to go because it no longer holds the value it once did? Who would be delighted to have what you no longer need? Sharing your abundance with others is a gift to both the sender and the receiver. You will have less clutter and the new owner will rejoice in having something new to them. Once the space is cleared set the expectation that every time something is taken out, it must be returned to its home before taking out something new. When it's time to leave the room, everything gets put away. Yes, it can happen!
Today is a new day. How will you choose to live a simpler more abundant life?
Mary Yewell is teaching a two-session workshop on Simple Abundance on Saturday, October 4th and Saturday, October 11th 2008 from 1-4pm. Cost is $250/person. Space is limited and will sell out. Call Plaza Wellspring at 816-931-6533 before September 26 2008 to reserve your spot.













